Friday, September 25, 2009
wonders.
turning your head to bite the hand that feeds you.
in not so dramatic terms, turning around to bite the person that tries to be nice to you. why would people even wanna try to be nice to you anymore?
psychology says people with mental disorders/depression tends to slip into deeper depression. because they lack the skill to communicate and be mentally healthy and react appropriately to situations. because they become a black hole to themselves, noone else wants to relate to them because they dun have the skill to, offending them as they go about. If we are angry in our responses, others will be reluctant to interact with us. If we bring “baggage” from past bad interactions to new relationships, we may be cynical, distrustful, and guarded in our exchanges with others. If we are positive, happy, and share openly with others, they will be more likely to communicate openly with us.
maybe to any of you in general, that's juz pure stating of common sense.. but i actually do like what i'm studying. in fact, i love what i'm studying. everything is applicable on life. school apart from exams is as though it's leading you on a journey of discovery of self and people around you, a journey of awareness (: i learnt that..
when you've mastered the art of hiding and avoiding your feelings, you usually find it hard to label emotions. Check
when in anxiety, you can decide to reduce anxiety by choosing to behave in a way that is exactly opposite to one's true feelings (reaction formation). hmm
you know, i've been thinking.
every response we make is actually a defense mechanism we adopt. maybe that's where Freudian went wrong. we'll always face intrapsychic conflict between the id, ego and superego. i mean, the id and ego will ALWAYS be contradicting itself.. so yeah. defense mechanism. it's pretty cool when you look at them and go "mmm, this sounds familiar.." x)
stardee (:
oh, and the units this year are so interesting. like the one for that health behaviour one, it has like 987654321 tips on bettering the different areas and aspects of health. should adopt some to try x) who says year1's boring x)
*throbs @21:17 <3
good that you're applying what you've learnt! =P all the best for exams!!!!!! =)
HAHA NADDIE! you sound like erm my teacher!! x) HMMM x) all the best to yours tooo!!!! (:
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